There's no way to do that, sorry. The two things conflict in that situation. He would be forcing a relationship in that case and, like I said earlier, he wants a true relationship. A relationship that we want to have with Him.
if you're willing to say reading some kinda book or listening to some kind of music makes you ugly i can say listening to hip hop makes you do drugs and grab you crotch in public
You need to keep your asinine, uninformed opinions to yourself, and you especially need to keep them out of the hip-hop thread. When you get a clue as to what "music appreciation" means, then maybe you'll understand that there's more to media than one 16 year old ignorant-ass chump motherfucker can discern.
And NOBODY who reads Clive Cussler should make jibes at other people's IQ's.