I agree with what you are saying but not everyone agrees with your logic, and I know I can hold my own against anyone which is why I do not care in the first place. The only time I'll use them though is if I am joking aroung with my friends or if somone decides to become an asshole. The exception is here on online sites where I personally do not find any reason to use them at all.
I stand nearly six feet tall and barely weigh 130 pounds. I would not win a fight, that's why I fight with words.
Unfortunately very few see the logic in anything.
When you give up the feeble hope for normalcy and stop caring about what the world thinks about you, you learn that words only hurt when you care.
I am not a racist or a sexist, I hate everyone in the world, some more than others, but that is because they are stupid.