Relationships are weird, but fullfilling
So I had an interesting experience tonight. My girlfriend broke up with me. But it like, wasn't bad in any way. She wanted to talk in person because she felt breaking up over the phone was a dick move and I couldn't help but admire her for that. She was polite and addressed the problems head on while still understanding that the sort of relationship we had wasn't working. Theres things about me she really likes, and she still wants to be friends. And you know what? I think she and I have the best chance of actully being friends after this. Of any of the girls I've been, I think she's the one I'm okay with being "friends" with. Much as some guys lothe that word. She was the right girl to come along at the right time in my life and that makes me really happy. I honestly wouldn't call this a bad relationship, or even a bad break up. This is actually by far one of the best relationships I've ever been in thus far in my young life. Go me! This whole thing about relationships has been rather interesting. On the one hand, I no longer have a girlfriend, there's no sex on the horizon for some time and I now have no one to hold in my arms after said sex. On the flip side, I have a good friend who I get along with, who I have alot in common with and am completely content being "friends" with. Sounds like a win to me. Not sure why I'm telling you this. I guess I wanted something to share with you. |
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